Sharing for a peace of mind

I am not talking about sharing physical things (such as money, foods etc not because of stinginess hahahahahaha) but on today's post, I wanna write about sharing experiences, thoughts, problems.... Things like that...

Of course we usually sharing these kind of matters to one that we trusted, not necessarily close one but trusted.
Maybe to our husbands or friends.
Or family members.

The differences between open up or sharing with different type of peoples are the different views of the same subject from these peoples.

If it was a sharing session with friends, lain lagi perspective dia.
If with family and husband, lain lagi benda yang akan dorang share.
Sometimes, gender also affect the way topic was viewed.

Ini yang saya suka pasal sharing.
Because at one time, the conversation hit just at the spot where these 2 peoples (or more) experience the same thing.
Reach an greement kind of sort.
Yang "wahhhhh betul oh, saya pun rasa macam tu!"

I like this kind of conversation.
Sebab sometimes, it gives a consolation to the heart, that I'm not alone on going through this many phases of life.

Tapi, mau be wise jugalah sama siapa kita sharing sebab usually these kind of things can get into topic yang very personal and private.

Find your trusted one. And share.

Rainy day update

Currently it is raining cats and dogs outside and there is not much I can do in this office.

So many activities was planned for months ahead.

Wedding to attend, hiking or jungle trekking to be more exact and traveling.

I'm not that type of person that going public abt my plan to travel to other countries. I don't see the reason too. I'm an ordinary traveler. Nothing to brag abt my traveling experience. Yes, it was "running from daily life" kind of therapy.

I do share photos, stories. As a mementos for myself. But that doesn't entitles me to be "pakar" or "champion". Far from that.

Tiada gunanya kalau melancong itu cuma untuk menunjuk-nunjuk dan tidak membuka mata kita tentang what real life is.

Travel for me should be about soul searching, humility and seeing the world in a little bit of different perspective. Not about telling the whole world you had conquered the whole continents. But again, this is solely my point of view.

Off to other topic, sometimes I try very hard to understand peoples who parade their purchase on social media. Every single time they purchase things, mesti kena post di SEMUA media dia. Gitew! Maybe saya jealous juga bah ni kan sebab saya bukan tidak mampu tapi saya banyak komitmen. Too many things that money related mau kena settle. Lagipun barang2 yang kena show off tu semua branded. *insert muka panjang mulut*. That is why I had unfollow (bukan unfriend or block ah) many peoples' timeline from appearing on my wall. Sakit mata dan hati bah. Inda kemampuan ako membeli barang-barang gitu. Ha!Ha!Ha!

Apa2 pun semoga kamu semakin kaya raya dan semakin banyak kamu boleh tembirang di FB kah, IG kah, atau mana2 lah.

Kbye!