Our Children

A kid as young as 12 years old, planning a whole plot to arson a Tahfiz school.

A kid lied to his father that his teacher at school hit him but the truth is the kid was caught smoking. Father went to school and hit the teacher.

A student hit a teacher with a rock on the head while at the same time stealing from the teacher.

Scarry.....
What is happening to our kids today?
And most of the peoples blame the teacher for the kids misconduct?
Then where is the role of parenthood taking place?
Semua salah cikgu lah konon?

You tell me!

But sometimes, macam mana berusaha pun ibu bapa bagi pengajaran sama anak, in the end banyak faktor juga yang akan mempengaruhi anak...

The advance technology of internet which accessible to any age level, peer pressure dan banyak lagilah...

Scary isn't it?

This post is not a judging post.
Not judging the pelaku.
But I think we need to do something about this.

I could only pray that my children tidak akan terpengaruh sama gejala-gejala macam ni.

Mari sama-sama praying that good overpowering the bad.

Sharing for a peace of mind

I am not talking about sharing physical things (such as money, foods etc not because of stinginess hahahahahaha) but on today's post, I wanna write about sharing experiences, thoughts, problems.... Things like that...

Of course we usually sharing these kind of matters to one that we trusted, not necessarily close one but trusted.
Maybe to our husbands or friends.
Or family members.

The differences between open up or sharing with different type of peoples are the different views of the same subject from these peoples.

If it was a sharing session with friends, lain lagi perspective dia.
If with family and husband, lain lagi benda yang akan dorang share.
Sometimes, gender also affect the way topic was viewed.

Ini yang saya suka pasal sharing.
Because at one time, the conversation hit just at the spot where these 2 peoples (or more) experience the same thing.
Reach an greement kind of sort.
Yang "wahhhhh betul oh, saya pun rasa macam tu!"

I like this kind of conversation.
Sebab sometimes, it gives a consolation to the heart, that I'm not alone on going through this many phases of life.

Tapi, mau be wise jugalah sama siapa kita sharing sebab usually these kind of things can get into topic yang very personal and private.

Find your trusted one. And share.

Prioritise

Was reading through the travel notes provided by our travel agent for the November trip to Holyland. Then it hit me, do I need all these travels for therapy?

Money, family?

Sometimes the truth is I am in dilemma.
When it comes to traveling, I have to left behind my small family (dude & sumandak).

I need to refresh why I want to travel other places.
I do not want it to be a hobby, a passion or for fun.

I want something out of it.
Knowledge.
Lesson.
Experience.
I need it to broaden my perspective about life.

Saya tidak mau it becomes a trend yang konon, wah dorang pigi sana, saya wajib pigi sana juga.
I want to learn something from it.
I want that my every travel, it changes me.
For the better.
With nothing to brag about.
It just part of life.

Tiba-tiba saya banyak fikiran petang-petang macam ini.
Life is too short you know.
Death will come in any time unknown and in any forms unimaginable.

Under The Weather

Makin tua makin lemah tu immune badan walaupun setiap hari makan Vit.C, fish oil dan minum lemon green tea panas setiap pagi.

Baru kena hujan last Sunday during a hike to Gangar, terus malam dia sakit kena flu. Maybe coz of the sejukness. Alahai apalah nasib badan.

The hike was fun and yes, ada juga satu pacat gatal berjaya hinggap di tangan. Kurenges bah tu pacat. Pikir saya ni penderma darah ka. Kin malu saja keluar suara ganas. Hahahahahahahaha!

Tapi kisah menyedihkan adalah bila kami satu group sama hikers berpengalaman kunun. Tidak mencabar lah, lambat lah. Hey ho! Just enjoy every moment. This is not a competition. Semuakah mau berlumba.

Cakap pasal berlumba, manusia sekarang ni suka betul bertanding. Untuk kepuasan hati kali but seriously at this age am not interested to compete with anyone.

Mau kaya, berlumba.
Mau ada anak, berlumba.

Mau mati, tidak pula berlumba.
Mau kumpul iman, tidak pula berlumba.

I is malas surrounded by peoples as such.
Pelan2 saya undur diri supaya tidak stress hidup dengan berada di kalangan mereka ini.